It has an atmosphere of hushed attentiveness.  Dignity and formality create this.  But it has personality, too, exhibiting the couple's character.  The goal is to creatively combine dignity and personality: hushed attentiveness punctuated by laughter and tears.  Guests have no doubt a sacred transaction occurred (vows were spoken, lives were joined) but they also carry away compelling memories of two people.  Thus there is the comfort of tradition properly observed and the delight of savoring the character of a relationship.  Humor is pervasive but appropriate, always submissive to the dignity of the day.  I see ceremonies where guests move irresistibly from dutiful presence (really there for the reception) to genuine emotional involvement.  In anyone's book, the perfect wedding ceremony.  Such is easily achieved, even with the variables involved.  Some couples are outgoing and confident, know what they want and thrill to the idea of center stage on their much-planned day; others are more subdued, less sure or downright shy, looking to the officiant for what the ceremony will be, hoping the spotlight of attention less bright.  Some are elegant venues with black-tie air, full of guests and careful choreography; others are precious backyard gatherings with little pageantry.  Whatever the personality of the couple or type of event, there is a way to make it work wonderfully.

"Your wonderful sense of humor made us feel at ease.  My guests and family kept commenting 'This guy is great!  Where did you find him?'"
Jen and Armando (March 2003)

"The ceremony was uplifting and fun and we cannot thank you enough." 
Parisa and Nicolas (September 2004)

"The way you remembered my dad in the ceremony was perfect, just what the family needed.  Thank you." 
Akiko and Mike (June 2001)